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Catie Fairfield – Loveland, Colorado … God is the most important relationship in our life. It should be a priority for us to find ways to grow closer to Him. You can’t expect to know Him better if you aren’t constantly putting time and effort in. While there are numerous ways to do this, these are the five that I have found to work in my own personal life.

Consistently Spend Time in His Word 

The Bible is God’s direct way of speaking to us. It teaches us about His character and gives us the most beneficial way to live. When we apply these Biblical instructions to our lives, we will see a noticeable, positive change. We need to open our hearts up and give God the chance to speak to us. Another helpful thing is to memorize scripture. That way, when we are put into certain situations, God can put that scripture into our mind and help lead us.

Pray in Everything 

When we go throughout our day talking to God, we invite God into our hearts, and we learn to trust Him more. Just like in any human relationship, it takes time and communication to build a bond. The same applies to our relationship with Jesus. Praying to Gods helps us to fight temptations and get through trials because He will strengthen us.

He tells us this in Philippians 4:6, Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. Lastly, when we pray, we should also praise God for all the blessings He gives us. Prayer journals are a great way we can look back and see the prayers that God answered.

Ask God to Free You from Sins

See what temptations are holding you back from drawing closer to Him. Sin is anything that can separate us from God. When we choose to deny our fleshly desires, we will see progress in our choices and lifestyle. We can’t fight sin on our own, so we must call upon God to ask for help. By His grace and mercy, He will forgive us of our sins, but that doesn’t mean we should take advantage of it.

Serve Others

Jesus came down to serve us, and we should do the same. Serving is our way of putting others before ourselves and recognizing that people are in need of help. Humbly serving others can also open our eyes to things God has done in our life. It is another form of gratitude. Serving can be done through multiple ways such as encouraging the people around you, volunteering at your church or elsewhere, or spreading the gospel.

Live in the Spirit

While doing all of these things will help us to grow with God, living and inviting the Spirit into our lives is ultimately one of the best things you can do for yourself. Walking in accordance to the Spirit will help us to create that intimacy with God. Setting our minds on things above this world and trusting God will provide is how we can truly be followers of Jesus.

Carlos Santana, Campion Academy chaplain, encourages us to, “have God lead our lives in everything that we do. Before we even try to take that step, we should have God lead that step. That’s what living in the Spirit is.”

God is so good to us and wants to have a relationship with us. Trust in Him and He will bless you even through life’s challenges.

—Catie Fairfield, Campion Academy Student News Team. Photo provided.

By Mic Thurber

Some of my fondest childhood memories are of my years in Pathfinders. I loved the campouts, the activities, and the opportunities to earn honors. It was in Pathfinders that I first learned how to tie a tie—my leader was so impressed at the quality of my tie’s knot that he had me parade before all the guys to show them how their tie should look!

Somewhere, I have an old 8×10 inch black and white photo of my best friend me standing holding a kite between us. We made our kites together out of the same wood and paper, so they looked identical. We even got the same size ball of string for our kites.

Unfortunately, my friend’s kite broke in half in the strong beach-side winds that day in Southern California where the Pathfinder kite event was held that year, so he couldn’t compete in the “all kite” event. I had won the event for my size kite, and, when his kite broke, we added his string to my string, and found another ball of string that was added.

My kite flew so far that the judges at first thought my kite was being flown by a non-Pathfinder a couple of hundred yards away. They had to come over and watch me work at my kite so they could see that I was indeed controlling it before they would give me first place. Immediately after the event, one of our leaders immediately confiscated my string. He didn’t say why exactly, but at our next meeting he announced that my kite had flown 1,412 feet that day. He had wound my string around an 8-foot table to make it easier for him to tally the length.

Of course, I had no idea it had flown that far. All I knew was that flying that kite was fun beyond words. It was so rewarding to have made it and flown it. Whenever I run across that picture, I relive a wonderful part of my childhood.

Pathfndering gave me many chances to grow and learn, to make new friendships, and to cement older ones. It changed my life in many ways.

What a powerful punctuation point to my life would come years later when I would serve as Elder John Hancock’s pastor at the Calimesa Church near Loma Linda. Pathfinders was his brainchild, and it was such a joy to hear him tell stories about the impact Pathfinders had on so many. It brought him such joy to think that so many young people would be touched by it.

We’ve had some wonderful Pathfinder clubs here in the Rocky Mountain region for many years. Current leaders like Brent Learned, RMC Youth Department associate director, Sue Nelson, RMC Club Ministries executive coordinator, and Eli Gonzalez, RMC club ministries associate executive coordinator, help keep the flame alive. They and their wonderful team of leaders continue to promote and support the work of Pathfinders.

Of course, the decision on the part of the NAD Pathfinder Camporee’s leadership to bring the International Pathfinder Camporee in 2024 to Gillette, Wyoming, has kindled a new interest in Pathfinders in a number of our churches. That’s so wonderful!

Kudos to those of you who were able to either strengthen your current club or start a new one. Either way, we are blessed with more and more Pathfinders in our conference! I’m sure they’ll all have a great time in Gillette and far beyond. It’s also great to know that the host conference for this event will be well represented.

What if Your Church Doesn’t Have a Club?

Of course, not every church can sponsor a Pathfinder club at this point for any number of reasons. That’s ok. Perhaps your time will come sometime in the future.

But you can still help in a meaningful way. If your church doesn’t have a club right now, you can still be a HUGE blessing to another nearby club that, more than likely, needs some financial help as they gear up for Camporee. Why not take an offer up and share it with a sister church that is working hard to get their Pathfinders ready for the event. Your gifts, however large or small, could make a huge difference in helping their club get there.

There likely won’t be a bunch of 8×10 inch black and white photos leftover from this event, but I promise you that there will be memories made that will impact our youth for a lifetime. Let’s do all we can to help them forge those memories and characters for the kingdom of Christ!

—Mic Thurber is president of the Rocky Mountain Conference. Photo by Bill Fairs on Unsplash.

Marsha Bartulec – Erie, Colorado … In Chapel on January 5 at the Vista Ridge Academy in Erie, Colorado, we discussed being wise with our words.

Have you ever done the toothpaste lesson? I stood up front with a tube of Colgate toothpaste and squeezed it all out onto a paper plate, rolling the tube to squeeze out as much as I could. I showed the students my accomplishment of squeezing all the toothpaste out.

Afterwards, I asked our student body president to come up and help me, which she graciously obliged. I asked her to take the plastic spoon I was holding and to use it to scoop up the toothpaste and put as much as she could back into the tube. I offered to hold the tube, and she began trying to get the paste back into the tube.

After trying for a minute with no success, I asked for two more students to come and help. They sure did try! We thanked them for their help, and they went to sit down. I took the toothpaste and tube around showing the students how much they were able to get back in; maybe just a tiny amount, but you could not tell any toothpaste got back into the tube.

This month for our Eagle Way initiative, we are focusing on Honor. How can we show honor in different spaces of our building to our classmates, friends, and teachers?

One way we can show honor is through our words. I asked seven students to come up front (one from each classroom) to hold a whiteboard on which I had written unkind words. They revealed the unkind words one by one. Examples included, “you’re not my friend,” “go away,” and “you’re annoying.”

In the book Kindness Grows, author Britta Teckentrup writes, “friendships can be damaged by a mean or ugly word. Once it has been spoken, it cannot be unheard. Words of encouragement, sweetness, warmth, and care, blossom, grow, and flourish as they spread love everywhere.”

Psalm 51 is an expression of repentance. David, the greatest of Israel’s kings, fell into serious sin and recognized his need to plead with God for forgiveness. Proverbs 25:11 says, a word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.

The Prophet Nathan came to David to tell him what he did was wrong. He was not mean but told a story instead. His words were wise. David asks God in Psalm 51:10 to create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me. Earlier in verse 7, he asks God to wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

It is my prayer that we will use kind words and uplift one another. Like toothpaste, we cannot take our unkind words back. However, like King David, we can ask for forgiveness. We can choose to show honor to others.

—Marsha Bartulec is the principal of Vista Ridge Academy. Photo by Ann Zzz of Pexels.

By Juleun A. Johnson

I will never forget my yes to ministry. It was not dramatic or some Pauline experience of blindness and a voice. It was something that I always knew. E.E. Cleveland, a legendary Adventist Evangelist of the 20^th Century said that were three ways a person was called to ministry. The three ways included association, birth, or direct confrontation. As a second-generation Adventist minister, I guess you could call it association and birth. My father never made me choose ministry, but I saw it and felt it in my home and interactions with others.

As a kid, I saw the ministry as something to be revered, respected, and it looked fun. My father honestly made it look easy. He was pretty serious about his work, but there was something he had that I see missing today. He had friends—best friends in the ministry. Too often, the loneliness of the work and the pressures to perform can drive any and all to a point of Elijah-like isolation.

I know what isolation feels like all too well. As a pastor’s kid, I grew up in major metropolitan areas of the United States. However, when I entered pastoral ministry, I was sent to extreme rural areas of the country. The pressures of ministry notwithstanding, I was newly married, and serving as the sole pastor of three congregations. I felt alone and wondered, did God forget about me.

I was reminded on several occasions after praying that God did not forget about me. One of my churches had a very faithful pianist. One Sabbath, I literally prayed to see someone I had not seen in a long time. The person who came arrived from 900 miles away and was a concert pianist. No matter your ministry assignment, every ministry placement has two reasons. First, God is calling you there to show you he can work through you. Secondly, God is giving you an opportunity to work on your own character. God wants you to grow.

Over my years of ministry, I have learned a few lessons about leading myself, leading others, and leading for results. My first task as a leader is to realize God has called me as a servant leader. My first parish is my family. As l lead myself, my call and responsibility is to find myself daily as an inspiration to those who I am called to first; my family. Hebrews 11:7 says, By faith, Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family.

Once I accepted that my first and primary calling in leadership was to my family, it changed everything. I realized that I had to prioritize the needs of those in my own home. Recently, I had one of my best friends in life and ministry ask me a unique question. He asked, “How is your batting average?” Before I heard the entire question, I answered how well I was doing on my job in my ministry role. He let me speak and then quickly said, “I am not talking about work.” He went on to ask, “How is your batting average at home?” Stunned, I responded with the reality, I was not doing as good as I would have liked.

The reality is that self-leadership involves so much more than just talk. It is the day-to-day grind of doing, being, nurturing, and growing oneself. In my role as a chaplain and administrator, I grow more daily than I ever have before. I get to share, nurture, and give grace to others so that I can assist them in their growth as well. No day in ministry is the same, but I get the opportunity to see lives transformed and strategies developed. What a joy it is to serve.

From the perspective of leading others, it is not the same as it once was. The post-pandemic recovery is real. Recently, the US Surgeon General, the highest health official in the United States, said there is an epidemic of loneliness.¹ In fact, 54% of Americans say they are lonely and have feelings of isolation.

We are leading people who are not only lonely, but angry, anxious, and, at times, on the brink of depression. So how do you lead people who feel alone when you feel alone? In many assignments that I have had in ministry, I have found that connecting with groups in the community and serving has provided me with opportunities to restore my joy and hope.

I believe the nexus of burnout and satisfaction lies in service.

I would suggest you do something for others, and get others involved in serving. The greatest days of my ministry have been when we as a church, group, or team have shut everything down, including the worship service and served. Even the cantankerous, pessimistic grinches in your church, office, or team soften up when it is time to serve.

The last element is leading for results. You can lead for results and show leadership as you pursue results. I have learned an important principle. People are more important than things. In my mind, people are significantly more important. Without people, we would have no churches, communities, or a world; people are important including you.

From a leadership perspective, what does not get measured does not get done. In my mind (and career), baptism and tithe gains are the foundational elements of ministry. There are so many things that you do as a minister that also need to be included as essential elements. Are you measuring the community contacts and the conversations with businesses you support? How many non-profits have you served, and how many visitors have been to your church this year/month? As you measure these items that are important to your local context, keep them before all your levels of leadership; from local to administrative.

Yes, my friend in ministry, you are doing so much more than any entity can imagine, but how you empower your team, your church, or entity depends on what you deem as valuable and what you measure.

I want you to know that beyond the shadow of a doubt, I still say yes to ministry. There are challenges ahead, but there have been many blessings that show a beam of light behind me to light my path. I know that there are blessings awaiting you this year. Please know that you are not alone; God has a plan for your life. God is waiting to continue to bless you, your family, and ministry. I will be praying God’s blessings on you and your family in this year, and for the journey ahead.

—Dr. Juleun Johnson serves as vice president for mission and ministry at AdventHealth. Republished by permission from North American Division Ministerial Association Stories & Commentaries post, January 8, 2024. Photo supplied.

1. https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2023/05/03/new-surgeon-general-advisory-raises-alarm-about-devastating-impact-epidemic-loneliness-isolation-united-states.html (accessed January 7, 2024).

Mic Thurber – Denver, Colorado … The Rocky Mountain Conference (RMC) enters 2024 with much for which to be thankful, even in the face of some real challenges that face both our conference, the wider church, and society.

Here’s some of what we are grateful for in 2023:

• Strong academy graduating classes totaling 52 new alumni from Campion and Mile High Academies.
• Our dedicated educators are working hard to implement NAD-supported Standards Based Learning under the direction of our education leadership team.
• Wonderful summer camp programs headed by our youth department leaders, which provided not only great camping experiences for 343 young people but also led to 40 baptisms.
• Churches and pastors are investing in evangelism again now that COVID is behind us.
• Fifty-six pastors leading 125 churches and companies, and 62 teachers leading 776 students in our 17 schools.
• Filling most of the pastoral openings around the conference, which was complicated in recent years by large spikes in housing costs, especially in our Front Range.
• An active conference departmental staff providing ministerial support, trust, and wills services free for our constituents, health and wellness programs, communication workshops and assistance, women’s retreats, prayer retreats, support for our Spanish language work, assistance for local clerks and treasurers, IT support for our conference office and schools, religious liberty support, and Human Resources support.
• A training weekend for new church officers organized by Aurora First Church pastor Jose Alarcon, to which all Denver area churches were invited. Our departmental staff and numerous area pastors were asked to participate in the training.
• Two hundred and two new church members joined our churches by mid-September 2023, and, as of this writing, our membership is 17,171, with more expected by the end of the year.

For these and other blessings, we are extremely grateful for the Lord’s kindness to us!

We Have Our Challenges, Too

Much discussed in recent times is the growing need for pastors and teachers as the number of ministerial and education students in our colleges has seriously dwindled. There are more openings in both ministry and education than we have available people to fill them. How will we respond?

On the horizon is another significant issue to be faced. With many church leaders and financial supporters growing older, will the younger generations be able to step in to provide the leadership and financial support the church will need to continue its work?

How can we best continue to support and build up our schools? How can we help more parents see the value of a Christian education?

How can we better covenant together to make our mission to the world around us our top priority in both our churches and schools?

Responding to the Challenges Takes Everyone

While we have many reasons for praise and thanksgiving, ours is a work that requires constant devotion until Jesus breaks through the clouds. There are things we can do together.

For example, what if each of us kept a watchful eye out for a young person or two in our church or school who shows early signs of a spiritual tenderness that God could one day tap to be a teacher or pastor? Why not take time to talk with them, and let them know they’d make a fine pastor or teacher one day?

If there are young adults and youth in your church, why not invite them to participate in church leadership?

What if each of us decided we want to make sure our churches matter to our communities? How might that impact how we spend our time, attention, and resources?

And finally, I’d like to ask that we all commit to making Jesus the center of all we are and do. We might disagree about one thing or another, but if we can rally together around Jesus, 2024 will bring greater blessings and growth for His kingdom. Let’s work together to make 2024 the best year yet for the Lord’s kingdom in Rocky Mountain Conference.

—Mic Thurber is president of the Rocky Mountain Conference.

Jana Thurber – Denver, Colorado … In the Rocky Mountain Conference (RMC), we have the privilege of joining our world-wide Adventist church family in spending a few days where we really take seriously the privilege of prayer through the 10 Days of Prayer initiative by the General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists Ministerial Association, January 10-20.

Praying together binds us in ways we might never understand. But just imagine what power might be unleashed if all God’s people all over the world take seriously praying together for the advancement of God’s kingdom. What a powerful change this would make in our own hearts and lives to be ready for that kingdom to come!

If you haven’t invested much time in prayer with your church’s prayer leaders until now, this would be a great time to get a good sense of how powerful this could be in your life and the life of your church.

It is not hard to do 10 Days of Prayer, it just requires you set aside a few minutes each day. Every church might do it a little differently, so talk to your pastor or church prayer leader and find out what your church is doing. See how you can participate in this wonderful opportunity that we have.

Some churches are planning evening Zoom prayer calls together for an hour following a guide of praise, repentance, intercession, and thanksgiving. Other people are participating in morning prayer phone calls for a half hour or a full hour. Pastors might also include Sabbath sermons highlighting prayer and the Holy Spirit’s power which comes from life-changing communion with our Creator God.

Here are some resource links for more ideas on how to grow your own personal prayer ministry, a children’s prayer ministry, or a church’s prayer ministry.

https://www.ministerialassociation.org/prayer/grow-your-personal-prayer-life/

https://www.revivalandreformation.org/resources

https://www.revivalandreformation.org/prayer

https://www.revivalandreformation.org/uip

https://www.nadadventist.org/departments/prayer-ministries

https://www.ministerialassociation.org/prayer/

A woman on the East Coast connected with me and asked if her name could be added to my weekly prayer warriors list for intercessory prayer. She had an urgent health need. We earnestly lifted her needs to God in prayer.

When one prayer warrior recognized the heath issue, she quickly referred to a book that dealt with healing foods and protocols for the woman’s particular health issue. God unleashed his perfect creatively-timed power allowing one person to help another person with information that would produce healing—all because of a prayer request.

When we take hold of this mighty God of ours—this Creator of the Universe and Savior who is eager and willing to deliver all who come to Him—God’s answers come in small or large packages.

I would love to hear of your experience over the 10 days of prayer. Email me at [email protected] to share your story with me. I will only share anonymously, and, with your permission, the answered prayers you share.

It is very encouraging for us to hear how prayer mattered in someone’s life, and how it makes a difference when we come together and present our needs to God. I invite you to participate in the upcoming 10 Days of Prayer. I promise you will be blessed.

—Jana Thurber is the RMC women’s ministries and prayer ministries director as well as pastoral spouse support. Photo by Unsplash.